Today we watched a singapore live show titled as "从心开始”which talk about the miserable life of a uncle in his old age that just won his sue on his own daughter to get alimony for every month. Th stories begin when the uncle seriously addicted to gambling and bring troubling to his family while he tried to escape from AH LONG to Indonesia. His wife and kids couldnt make their mind to forgive their father since they experienced the suffering life with debt collectors everday during pro morning.The point that the uncle used to sue his daughter is that when his kids found he had another family in Indonesia, they tried to persued their father to transfer the ownership of the house to his daugher. We dont know whats the primary reason of his daugher doing that, but as a daughter i guess i will do that so as this is the only way to protect my mum that her husband built another family out there. Another important point is that the uncle never feel sorry to his family and still argued strongly that he feed the family, bring kids for schooling and provided what they want. From my point of view, that uncle not really understand what actually his kids need from parent. His kids expressed their feeling through a letter that read out through the host of the show that they suffered since they was young with illegal debt collectors everyday and only their mum take good care of them. It means they blamed so badly on his dad never take good care of them and having affair out there. The funny things the uncle refuted is that what he done is all because of his wife having affair with another guy. We dont know is that blame or sue is true or not but something im sure is that his family will never forgive their father no matter what he done because the hurt is rooted so firm in their heart.
After the show we had a short discussion on that topic. Edwin told me actually its something normal for a guy to play around out there, but the point is NEVER BRING TROUBLE TO FAMILY. Yes, maybe guys would have such thought that some girls might behave that way as well. I never agree to this statement that girls will do so before i come to jb. Cant be deny that alot girls in jb are quite open-minded till they dare to do something that i cant really accept. From the gals view, i still cant accept this senario. I cant accept my partner having affair out there and still wish to get a complete family after go home. NO WAY! Im so sorry that i cant agree to what Edwin told me, but i wont block u from doing this because i will still stand on my statement. U better watch out ar!! xD...Besides, that show bring me to some thinking that my father do playing around out there when we r still young. This incident bring a deep hurt to me as i thought my father is so nices and love us so much. But, im so wrong of it! Dad, dont blame us that we r so close to mum not u. I am failed to act as i dont care about how u hurted mum so deep inside her heart till now she so love u and sacrified for this family. As your kids, we saw everything by our eye as u never love mum from your heart and talk ill-mannersly to mum like a dog. Mum...no matter how u still have us. We love u . Dad..we respect u as our biological father but wish u wont do something walk to the fire, TQ
